"The Random Happenings of a Normal Person"
for-transmen:

If you’ve been looking to bind, whether you’re transgender, non-binary, or a cosplayer, you’ve probably come across binders like these on Ebay, Amazon, or AliExpress. Usually they’re called E.V.A, SHO, Whatwears, or Ancient Fish King brands, all of which are apparently, interchangeable with each other. Ross is here to tell you that these chest binders are not much of a step up from ace bandages, which in case you hadn’t known already, are the worst thing you can do to bind your chest. So here’s the run down, from least bad to worst.

First off, the sellers are usually misinformed about why someone would use a chest binder is needed just from how they title them. Why would Lesbians want a chest binder (outside of cosplay?)? I don’t know, but most of these listings have lesbian in the name, suggesting that chest binders are for girls, not men or nonbinary. This right there should be a warning sign of a company that doesn’t know what they are doing.

The strapless binders’ model is wearing the wrong size for their chest. Their breast is popping out over the top of the binder, and I can personally say that with that binder, it is very, very, painful if you have a larger chest. After about 20 minutes, bruising and chaffing will occur, esspecially to those with larger chests or are heavier. In the worst case scenario, the breast will rip or pop as if it were cut with a knife.

Look at the materials used. These chest binders do not have any or enough stretchy material in them. Elastic or spandex is the best. On the ones that do have spandex, they don’t mention how much there is in the binder. This is an enormous, bright, flashing sign that the binder is NOT safe. Just how bad is it? Ace bandages likely have more elastic than these binders do, and the ace bandages can still kill you if they don’t maim you. A binder is supposed to stretch, be easily manipulated, and you must be able to take a full breath in them. I’ve bought and used two different types binders from Ebay not knowing any better, and I could barely take a breath at all. I did get larger and larger sizes, and with the same result. Putting it simply, their binders could be falling off of you because they are too big and still would not be safe. 
Now I can’t show you in a picture about the next part, but what’s probably the worst about these binders is that their ‘binding’ material goes all the way around the binder. Your binder should NOT have this unless it is made to correct back posture. Sports bras can, but that is better for again, correcitng back posture. So not only will you be binding your chest, but you’ll be binding your ribs, back, and shoulders as well. This can warp them and damage the tissue. 
So what does a good binder look like? I’m going to use the binder I’ve had the best experiance with as an example. The Ultimate Chest Binder Tank by underworks. I’ve bought two of these as I’ve needed them, I wore out my old one after a year and a half of use daily including at work.
So, straight off from the site, we know this seller is knowlageable about their target audiance. Chest binders are under the men’s section and you never see the word lesbian on any of them. The only thing marked for women under the chest binder section is a sports bra, put there because transgender men often use them for working out.

The infomation section on the binder isn’t just two or three lines, it’s a whole paragraph. What is this binder made of? Medical grade 70% nylon and 30% spandex knit. It says it right there and is readily available information, you don’t have to dig through the seller’s ads for cheap wholesale jewlery in the description to find it. The listing also tells us how much of each material is used, information you must have when buying a chest binder. My personal rule of thumb? If it’s under 20% spandex or elastic, it’s trash. Our listing also tells us how to put the binder on, rather than making you struggle to figure it out on your own. Size chart and customer reviews are readily availible on the listing and not buried under ads for other unrelated merchandise. 

Also from looking at the binder’s pictures, the front and back of the binder is made differently; the front is thicker and non transparent while the back can bee seen through a bit and is thin in comparison. This is because the front of the binder is made to compress and bind the chest and the back of the binder is not. All the binding is in the front, support in the back. 
Please, know the difference between an unsafe binder and a safe one. Save your money and avoid ones found on ebay. Can’t afford a binder still? There are programs for people who cannot buy one on their own or it is unsafe for them to buy one. One such I know of is the In a Bind program, they have fantastic service if a bit slow delivery time. Remember, this program is only for transgender men and nonbinary, cosplayers will have to go elsewhere or outright buy a binder.

for-transmen:

If you’ve been looking to bind, whether you’re transgender, non-binary, or a cosplayer, you’ve probably come across binders like these on Ebay, Amazon, or AliExpress. Usually they’re called E.V.A, SHO, Whatwears, or Ancient Fish King brands, all of which are apparently, interchangeable with each other. Ross is here to tell you that these chest binders are not much of a step up from ace bandages, which in case you hadn’t known already, are the worst thing you can do to bind your chest. So here’s the run down, from least bad to worst.

Why is a chest binder for a lesbian?

First off, the sellers are usually misinformed about why someone would use a chest binder is needed just from how they title them. Why would Lesbians want a chest binder (outside of cosplay?)? I don’t know, but most of these listings have lesbian in the name, suggesting that chest binders are for girls, not men or nonbinary. This right there should be a warning sign of a company that doesn’t know what they are doing.

It's too tight!

The strapless binders’ model is wearing the wrong size for their chest. Their breast is popping out over the top of the binder, and I can personally say that with that binder, it is very, very, painful if you have a larger chest. After about 20 minutes, bruising and chaffing will occur, esspecially to those with larger chests or are heavier. In the worst case scenario, the breast will rip or pop as if it were cut with a knife.

These materials are not good

Look at the materials used. These chest binders do not have any or enough stretchy material in them. Elastic or spandex is the best. On the ones that do have spandex, they don’t mention how much there is in the binder. This is an enormous, bright, flashing sign that the binder is NOT safe. Just how bad is it? Ace bandages likely have more elastic than these binders do, and the ace bandages can still kill you if they don’t maim you. A binder is supposed to stretch, be easily manipulated, and you must be able to take a full breath in them. I’ve bought and used two different types binders from Ebay not knowing any better, and I could barely take a breath at all. I did get larger and larger sizes, and with the same result. Putting it simply, their binders could be falling off of you because they are too big and still would not be safe. 

Now I can’t show you in a picture about the next part, but what’s probably the worst about these binders is that their ‘binding’ material goes all the way around the binder. Your binder should NOT have this unless it is made to correct back posture. Sports bras can, but that is better for again, correcitng back posture. So not only will you be binding your chest, but you’ll be binding your ribs, back, and shoulders as well. This can warp them and damage the tissue. 

So what does a good binder look like? I’m going to use the binder I’ve had the best experiance with as an example. The Ultimate Chest Binder Tank by underworks. I’ve bought two of these as I’ve needed them, I wore out my old one after a year and a half of use daily including at work.

So, straight off from the site, we know this seller is knowlageable about their target audiance. Chest binders are under the men’s section and you never see the word lesbian on any of them. The only thing marked for women under the chest binder section is a sports bra, put there because transgender men often use them for working out.

YES! Good binder!

The infomation section on the binder isn’t just two or three lines, it’s a whole paragraph. What is this binder made of? Medical grade 70% nylon and 30% spandex knit. It says it right there and is readily available information, you don’t have to dig through the seller’s ads for cheap wholesale jewlery in the description to find it. The listing also tells us how much of each material is used, information you must have when buying a chest binder. My personal rule of thumb? If it’s under 20% spandex or elastic, it’s trash. Our listing also tells us how to put the binder on, rather than making you struggle to figure it out on your own. Size chart and customer reviews are readily availible on the listing and not buried under ads for other unrelated merchandise. 

Also from looking at the binder’s pictures, the front and back of the binder is made differently; the front is thicker and non transparent while the back can bee seen through a bit and is thin in comparison. This is because the front of the binder is made to compress and bind the chest and the back of the binder is not. All the binding is in the front, support in the back. 

Please, know the difference between an unsafe binder and a safe one. Save your money and avoid ones found on ebay. Can’t afford a binder still? There are programs for people who cannot buy one on their own or it is unsafe for them to buy one. One such I know of is the In a Bind program, they have fantastic service if a bit slow delivery time. Remember, this program is only for transgender men and nonbinary, cosplayers will have to go elsewhere or outright buy a binder.

bakaa-usagii:

as-seen-on-disney:

elphabaoftheopera:

I feel like the Mormons should work at Monsters Inc. but instead of scaring people they just try to convert them. 

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I just showed this to my Mormon friend who’s about to leave on her mission and she’s crying from laughing so hard.

Mormon’s Inc.

feaqu:

thanks, apprehensive shark! 

feaqu:

thanks, apprehensive shark! 

candlelightisfire:

So tiny! So cute!

avasdemon:

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Me and my commanders.

Me and my commanders.

sorinmarkov-lordofinnistrad:

I did a thing.

That’s me.

strangedayshavefoundme666:

brokenasphyxiation:

zetatauri:

ohnonotthedrill:

ndnickerson:

COLLEGE FIRST.

I love how the Addams Family has ZERO slut-shaming. Like… honey you can dance naked and enslave someone with your womanly charms if you want to, I don’t fucking care, but so help me you’re going to get a college education first.

A+ PARENTING

The Addamses are what every family should aspire to be like (you know; without the dismemberment and electric chairs as play time).  Honestly, have you ever seen more unconditionally loving and supportive parents than Gomez and Morticia?  And not just with the kids, but with each other.  I think what’s especially unique about them is how open they are with everything.  They don’t treat their children like children.  They treat them like they treat everyone else; direct, and to the point. 

It’s creepy how many good examples of parenting and romantic relationships there is in these characters, especially considering they are supposed to be the antithesis of the stereotypical American nuclear family.

who said yiffing
a surefire way to summon me in a group chat (via evdroid)

kanelfa:

the-ink-monster:

When you try to act tough about losing someone close but then you fall apart :’(

fuck

Most people don’t even know this pain….  Not that I want them to know it, but I feel this, a thousand times a year….

sorinmarkov-lordofinnistrad:

jacejosujura:

magic—the—memeing:

*Disclaimer* Violence against anyone is bad.
I never quite understood the controversy with Triumph of Ferocity because there’s so much else that the player base has let Wizards get away with involving their art. And in a plot line when a deranged Nomad like Garruk is going after someone that cursed him, I would expect sooner or later they would get in a fight, even a fist fight since Garruk is melee fighter when he’s not summoning nature’s beasts to his aid.
If depicting violence is such an issue, then there is so much more that we could go after, such as Silence the Believers or Sorin’s Vengeance. If the depiction of a woman is the issue, I think their unnecessary and excessive sexualization would be a much bigger issue than an anti-hero borderline villianesse getting pinned to a rock. 
The two things that amuse me about this are:
1. The Yu-Gi-Oh TCG goes out of its way to avoid these issues since it wants to appeal to a younger audience. So much so that they’ve gotten bad feedback for over-censorship. (I just appreciate the irony)
2. I’m glad that this issue was raised not because of the specific artwork, but because we got to redefine the boundaries of acceptable Magic card artwork for future cards… I just wish the new Triumph of Ferocity artwork wasn’t terrible.


I find it utterly amusing that Mortals can completely miss the point so spectacularly.
To those that are in the know about the background of magic, there is no problem with the old artwork for the card when it comes to Garruk pinning down Liliana Vess.  What she has done to him has completely warped him.  It is also not mutually exclusive to Garruk getting the upper hand on Liliana in the picture, after all, Triumph of Cruelty has a complete role reversal, with Liliana standing over a defeated, vulnerable Garruk.
The Problem is a social one however.  To those that do not know anything about Magic the Gathering, and only see the Triumph of Ferocity artwork, it’s horrifyingly close to the epidemic problem that all of our societies have.  Violence against women is EVERYWHERE, from the objectification of their bodies, to victim blaming, and even to their murder on a regular basis.  Viewed by the world as a whole, Triumph of Ferocity is part of the problem, and as unfortunate as that is, it had to be changed.
Depicting violence in mediums such as music, art, films, games is not inherently wrong.  If people are exposed to violence in the media, it does not automatically mean that they are more prone to commit those acts themselves.  Millions play GTA for example, and yet it does not make them into serial killers, or criminals in general.
As I stated, the problem is a Social one, and I’ll repeat, Violence against women is EVERYWHERE!  Women around the world have to second guess themselves walking down the street on their own, even during the day, because someone may decide to invade their personal space, or sexually abuse them.

sorinmarkov-lordofinnistrad:

jacejosujura:

magic—the—memeing:

*Disclaimer* Violence against anyone is bad.

I never quite understood the controversy with Triumph of Ferocity because there’s so much else that the player base has let Wizards get away with involving their art. And in a plot line when a deranged Nomad like Garruk is going after someone that cursed him, I would expect sooner or later they would get in a fight, even a fist fight since Garruk is melee fighter when he’s not summoning nature’s beasts to his aid.

If depicting violence is such an issue, then there is so much more that we could go after, such as Silence the Believers or Sorin’s Vengeance. If the depiction of a woman is the issue, I think their unnecessary and excessive sexualization would be a much bigger issue than an anti-hero borderline villianesse getting pinned to a rock. 

The two things that amuse me about this are:

1. The Yu-Gi-Oh TCG goes out of its way to avoid these issues since it wants to appeal to a younger audience. So much so that they’ve gotten bad feedback for over-censorship. (I just appreciate the irony)

2. I’m glad that this issue was raised not because of the specific artwork, but because we got to redefine the boundaries of acceptable Magic card artwork for future cards… I just wish the new Triumph of Ferocity artwork wasn’t terrible.

I find it utterly amusing that Mortals can completely miss the point so spectacularly.

To those that are in the know about the background of magic, there is no problem with the old artwork for the card when it comes to Garruk pinning down Liliana Vess.  What she has done to him has completely warped him.  It is also not mutually exclusive to Garruk getting the upper hand on Liliana in the picture, after all, Triumph of Cruelty has a complete role reversal, with Liliana standing over a defeated, vulnerable Garruk.

The Problem is a social one however.  To those that do not know anything about Magic the Gathering, and only see the Triumph of Ferocity artwork, it’s horrifyingly close to the epidemic problem that all of our societies have.  Violence against women is EVERYWHERE, from the objectification of their bodies, to victim blaming, and even to their murder on a regular basis.  Viewed by the world as a whole, Triumph of Ferocity is part of the problem, and as unfortunate as that is, it had to be changed.

Depicting violence in mediums such as music, art, films, games is not inherently wrong.  If people are exposed to violence in the media, it does not automatically mean that they are more prone to commit those acts themselves.  Millions play GTA for example, and yet it does not make them into serial killers, or criminals in general.

As I stated, the problem is a Social one, and I’ll repeat, Violence against women is EVERYWHERE!  Women around the world have to second guess themselves walking down the street on their own, even during the day, because someone may decide to invade their personal space, or sexually abuse them.

fairytalesandfallenangels:

thesoil:

Holy shit

I can’t even begin to describe the brilliance of this segment. 

Bravo.

Bra-vo.